Promise

I did! A forebode to myself.
To breathe as well as enjoy the good things life's offering.


Been so uptight, crammed and very focused to a life that should be savored. They say life comes once, live it and love it! Never waste time as it is of the essence. 


I agree. 


A second chance is never really a luxury with this day and age. My 2011 should be a year of travel, local one's first then hopefully an Asian tour or maybe a Global hitch after, right? Who knows! LIfe as we know is much better when we least expect things and let HIM do his will.


This blog will be endless or maybe months-in-the-making since I will be up and about the Philippine Islands for the longest as I will be cruising it month by month. As money allows it to be, it would still revolve around on moolah as the focal given that it comes every 15th and health would dictate the state of me.


My January was with Cebu. Awesome city if you ask me, the Queen City of the South. I can't start elaborating without mentioning the nightlife, tranced with magnificence and adventure, Mango District is the place to be. I can assure you of a remarkable treats that this joint offers. Spell fabulous. Imma do it in bold letters! I enfeoffed Friday-9pm at The Mactan International Airport, had some errands first then checked in at a nearby inn, took a shower and then finally hit the road. Then my jaunt officially took-off. Partying in Cebu was hell of an adventure. Awesome, I say! Then hit the sack at 5:30am but had difficulty sleeping, so I have no choice but to start my Saturday already.The scenic spots are not that panoramic anymore, for me, as they are seen in postcards most of the times but knowing how it is real life, now that is different. Visited the Mactan Shrine, then the Magellans Cross, threaded thru the Basilica Minore del Sto.Nino and then hoppity hopped to Fort San Pedro after. Walking distance, so I was in and out of the place in about an hour and 45 minutes. Breeze.


Note: I haven't snoozed yet!


So as my veins were still jittery of rum&coke, gin tonic and vodka. I set to my next terminus, Taoist Temple in Lahug. It was fun. I just whirled the staircase up and then down. Just that. Kidding. I enjoyed the architecture, scenic and bold but beautiful. What I hate? There are a lot of restirctions in the temple-never do this, not that, stay here-never there, well I guess that's normal so as to safeguard the ancient customs and traditons. No offense meant but people from all over the peninsula visits Cebu for the Taoist temple right? Well that's just a part of me dismayed. Moving on.


Finished the day tour around 6pm, exhausted and famished, had a dinner at a nearby fastfood joint. Burp! Full. 8pm striked and my nerves are up and about already, just took a warm bath then hurried to Mango again. This time straight to 

Love Abundance

Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [love]) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.


MANY LOVE


Polygamy (from πολύς γάμος polys gamos, translated literally in Late Greek as "often married"[1]) is a heterosexual marriage which includes more than two partners


MANY SPOUSES

Now there's a difference but still I really can't fathom the idea because it will mask the identity of a swinger. Most friends I know do practice swinging and for me it ain't healthy, promiscous even. 


I find it weird, absurd and unconventional but times have grown into such a warp that all unimaginable things before are now a reality and existing side by side with us, humans.


Would you like to share what's yours? Relationship-wise I mean. Jealousy is not a human trait well developed to handle the joyrides of intimacy and affinity. Things, yes! Why not! You can even trade, sell and barter to your hearts content if you want. But we are talking about an individual or a set of individuals. Breathing and alive. That thinks and feels differently in very atypical possible ways. Erratic sometimes if I may add. Well that's how genuine we are and distinct. Confused much? Don't rub it in!


That's my 2-cents. You? What do you think?
Are you PRO or ANTI?

emo boy

With my last break-up, I got devastated-torned into pieces and crashed all through. Never thought I could still bounce up and put resilience back in me. I asked HIM real hard to give me the one that I love. HE did. But that's just it, HE gave me the physical entity but never the whole individual with heart and mind to think, love and feel. Little did I know, as I contemplated, it was my answered prayer. Granted by the Omnipotent.


Again I prayed hard, really hard, well let's say this time much harder than the last. This time, I entreat and adjure for HAPPINESS. That's all. May it be a new friend, empowered life, success with career, love of a kin or even just a simple gift. Doesn't really matter what it is. Just a lucid or even casual thing. Am up for grabs. Happiness. 


But as HE is so amazing and a truly wonderful loving GOD. I again asked for one and he gave me the ONE. I hope. Emo Boy. He made the sun shine again. Made me realize how it is to fall in love again and trust and hope and be simply happy. The thought of him clears my head and gives me life from within. Words may not vindicate and not be enough to utter how I feel right now. Happiness. I know it will end but that's the future's concern already and that's why we have a present to make all that progeny matter.


But wait there's more. Have I told you that I am in a POLYAMORY kind of relationship? 
I know! Smells trouble, right? Who cares! I don't.
I am not conventional and I have the alternative lifestyle to boot. So right now it's a win-win situation. Consent it stays the same. I hope. 


Uncertain, hmmm? Yes! It's inevitable. Everything else is temporary. Only HIM is enduring and permanent.